The Graham Dwyer murder trial has heard that he was engaged in a sexual relationship with Elaine OâHara (37) which featured physical domination and S&M for sexual urges.
Dwyer (42) from Foxrock in Dublin is accused of killing the childcare worker who’s body was found in Rathfarnham after she had been missing for a year.
Text messages sent between the two were read out in court. There was a strange sexual affair between the two who allegedly met online.
One message from the phone in April 2012 read: âIâm a sadist. I enjoy othersâ pain. You should help me inflict pain on you and help me with my fantasies.â
Another message read: âI want to stick my knife in flesh while I am sexually aroused. Blood turns me on and Iâd like to stab a girl to death some time.â
Another message read: âIf you ever want to die, promise me I can do it.â
Ms OâHara responded: âYes, I promise, sir.â
The court heard how Ms O’Hara had a psychiatric illness. She was said to be the perfect victim because she was in a vulnerable mental state.
The trail continues before Mr Justice Anthony Hunt